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息事宁人

Word · VerbTraditional息事寧人

mediate disputes; give in to avoid trouble

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Meanings

2 senses · 6 examples
1.

verb

to mediate a dispute and settle it peacefully; to pacify a situation

formal

Describes active intervention to calm conflicts between parties. Often used in formal or administrative contexts.

Jū居
wěi委
huì会
dà大
mā妈
chū出
miàn面
xī息
shì事
níng宁
rén人
 ,
liǎng两
jiā家
zhōng终
yú于
hé和
hǎo好
rú如
chū初
 。

The neighborhood committee mediator stepped in to settle the dispute, and the two families finally made up.

Tā他
shàn善
yú于
xī息
shì事
níng宁
rén人
 ,
shì是
tuán团
duì队
lǐ里
bù不
kě可
huò或
quē缺
de的
hé和
shì事
lǎo佬
 。

He is good at mediating disputes and is an indispensable peacemaker on the team.

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Miàn面
duì对
chōng冲
tū突
 ,
wǒ我
men们
yīng应
gāi该
jī积
jí极
xī息
shì事
níng宁
rén人
 ,
ér而
bù不
shì是
huǒ火
shàng上
jiāo浇
yóu油
 。

When facing conflicts, we should actively seek to pacify the situation rather than add fuel to the fire.

2.

verb

to give in or make concessions to avoid further trouble; to swallow one's pride for peace

neutral

Implies passive self-restraint or yielding to maintain peace, sometimes carrying a nuance of sacrificing one's interests or dignity. Can be neutral or slightly negative depending on context.

Wèi为
le了
xī息
shì事
níng宁
rén人
 ,
tā他
zhǐ只
hǎo好
rěn忍
qì气
tūn吞
shēng声
de地
dào道
qiàn歉
 。

To avoid further trouble, he had no choice but to swallow his pride and apologize.

Lǎo老
bǎn板
xuǎn选
zé择
xī息
shì事
níng宁
rén人
 ,
duō多
fù付
le了
nà那
bǐ笔
qián钱
dǔ堵
zhù住
kè客
hù户
de的
zuǐ嘴
 。

The boss chose to settle the matter by paying extra to silence the customer.

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Miàn面
duì对
wú无
lǐ理
yāo要
qiú求
 ,
yī一
wèi味
xī息
shì事
níng宁
rén人
zhǐ只
huì会
zhù助
zhǎng长
duì对
fāng方
de的
qì气
yàn焰
 。

Faced with unreasonable demands, constantly giving in to avoid trouble will only embolden the other party.