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一相情愿

Word · IdiomTraditional一相情願

unilateral wish; wishful thinking

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Meanings

2 senses · 6 examples
1.

idiom

to act based solely on one's own willingness while disregarding the other party's wishes (in mutual matters)

Often used in interpersonal contexts such as relationships, negotiations, or cooperation where mutual consent is required. Also written as 一厢情愿.

Nǐ你
bù不
néng能
yī一
xiāng相
qíng情
yuàn愿
de地
qiǎng强
pò迫
bié别
rén人
jiē接
shòu受
nǐ你
de的
guān观
diǎn点
 。

You cannot force others to accept your views based on unilateral wishful thinking.

Hūn婚
yīn姻
shì是
liǎng两
gè个
rén人
de的
shì事
 ,
bù不
néng能
yī一
xiāng相
qíng情
yuàn愿
 。

Marriage concerns two people; it cannot be one-sided.

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Tā他
yī一
xiāng相
qíng情
yuàn愿
de地
rèn认
wéi为
duì对
fāng方
yě也
xǐ喜
huan欢
tā他
 ,
jié结
guǒ果
biǎo表
bái白
bèi被
jù拒
 。

He wishfully assumed the other person liked him too, only to be rejected after confessing his feelings.

2.

idiom

to act entirely based on subjective wishes without considering objective conditions; wishful thinking

Used broadly to describe any situation where someone ignores reality and acts only on their own desires. Also written as 一厢情愿.

Zhì制
dìng定
jì计
huà划
bù不
néng能
yī一
xiāng相
qíng情
yuàn愿
 ,
bì必
xū须
kǎo考
lǜ虑
shí实
jì际
qíng情
kuàng况
 。

You cannot make plans based on wishful thinking; you must consider the actual situation.

Bù不
gù顾
shì市
chǎng场
xū需
qiú求
 ,
yī一
xiāng相
qíng情
yuàn愿
de地
kuò扩
dà大
shēng生
chǎn产
 ,
jié结
guǒ果
zào造
chéng成
dà大
liàng量
jī积
yā压
 。

Ignoring market demand and wishfully expanding production resulted in massive overstock.

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Zuò做
jué决
cè策
bù不
néng能
yī一
xiāng相
qíng情
yuàn愿
 ,
yào要
chōng充
fèn分
kǎo考
lǜ虑
gè各
zhǒng种
kè客
guān观
yīn因
sù素
 。

Decision-making cannot be based on wishful thinking; various objective factors must be fully considered.