xiēxīn

歇心

Word · Verb

set one's mind at ease; give up

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Meanings

2 senses · 7 examples
1.

verb

to set one's mind at ease; to stop worrying; to have peace of mind

dialect

Used when one no longer needs to worry about something, often because children have grown up or a matter has been resolved. Common in northern dialects.

Hái孩
zi子
dōu都
yǐ已
cháng长
dà大
chéng成
rén人
 ,
lǎo老
rén人
jiā家
kě可
yǐ以
xiē歇
xīn心
le了
 。

The children have all grown up, so the elderly can set their minds at ease.

Děng等
zhè这
jiàn件
shì事
bàn办
wán完
le了
 ,
wǒ我
yě也
néng能
xiē歇
xīn心
le了
 。

Once this matter is settled, I'll be able to rest easy too.

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Hái孩
zi子
men们
dōu都
lì立
yè业
chéng成
jiā家
le了
 ,
fù父
mǔ母
yě也
gāi该
xiē歇
xīn心
le了
 。

The children have established their careers and started families, so the parents should be able to stop worrying.

2.

verb

to give up (an idea); to abandon hope; to lose hope and stop trying

dialect

Often used when someone finally stops pursuing something after repeated failures or disappointments. Implies a certain stubbornness when used in the negative (不肯歇心).

Jǐ几
cì次
pèng碰
bì壁
 ,
kě可
tā他
hái还
shì是
bù不
kěn肯
xiē歇
xīn心
 。

He hit walls several times, but he still refuses to give up.

Tā他
duì对
tā她
zǎo早
jiù就
gāi该
xiē歇
xīn心
le了
 ,
rén人
jiā家
gēn根
běn本
bù不
xǐ喜
huan欢
tā他
 。

He should have given up on her long ago; she doesn't like him at all.

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Quàn劝
le了
tā他
duō多
shao少
cì次
 ,
ràng让
tā他
xiē歇
xīn心
bié别
gàn干
le了
 ,
tā他
jiù就
shì是
bù不
tīng听
 。

I've advised him so many times to give up and stop doing it, but he just won't listen.

Nǐ你
jiù就
shì是
bù不
xiē歇
xīn心
 ,
fēi非
yào要
děng等
dào到
shī失
bài败
le了
cái才
gān甘
xīn心
ma吗
 ?

You just won't give up—do you have to wait until you fail to be satisfied?