折受

verb

to cause someone to feel unable to bear excessive respect or kindness; to make one feel unworthy of such generous treatment

Used in dialectal Chinese (often northern dialects), typically in humble responses to excessive praise, gifts, or acts of kindness. The speaker implies that the other person's generosity is so great it would metaphorically 'shorten one's lifespan' to accept it. Often used in the pattern '折我的寿了' or similar constructions.