mòdekāi

磨得开

Word · VerbTraditional抹得開

save face; have the nerve; find acceptable

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Meanings

3 senses · 9 examples
1.

verb

to be able to show one's face; not feel embarrassed about losing face

Used in rhetorical questions or negative constructions to indicate whether someone can maintain their dignity in an embarrassing situation.

Nǐ你
dāng当
miàn面
wā挖
kǔ苦
rén人
 ,
rén人
jiā家
liǎn脸
shàng上
mò抹
de得
kāi开
ma吗
 ?

You're mocking him to his face—can he still show his face after that?

Dāng当
zhe着
zhè这
me么
duō多
rén人
de的
miàn面
bèi被
pī批
píng评
 ,
tā他
liǎn脸
shàng上
shí实
zài在
mò抹
bu不
kāi开
 。

Being criticized in front of so many people, he really couldn't show his face.

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Zǒng总
děi得
gěi给
rén人
jiā家
liú留
diǎn点
miàn面
zi子
 ,
ràng让
rén人
liǎn脸
shàng上
mò抹
de得
kāi开
 。

You have to leave some face for others so they can show their faces.

2.

verb

to have the nerve; to be so bold as to; not feel embarrassed (to do something impolite)

Often used in rhetorical questions to express disbelief that someone could do something considered rude or inconsiderate.

Tā她
qǐng请
kè客
nǐ你
bù不
qù去
 ,
nǐ你
mò抹
de得
kāi开
ma吗
 ?

She's treating you to dinner and you're not going—do you have the nerve?

Rén人
jiā家
bāng帮
le了
nǐ你
nà那
me么
duō多
 ,
nǐ你
hǎo好
yì意
si思
bù不
gǎn感
xiè谢
 ,
nǐ你
mò抹
de得
kāi开
ma吗
 ?

They helped you so much—don't you feel embarrassed not to thank them?

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Tā他
hǎo好
yì意
si思
kāi开
kǒu口
jiè借
qián钱
 ,
què却
bù不
hǎo好
yì意
si思
huán还
qián钱
 。

He had the nerve to ask to borrow money, but was too embarrassed to pay it back.

3.

verb

to find acceptable; to make sense; to be workable; to get over (psychologically)

dialect

Regional usage (dialect), indicating that an idea, plan, or reasoning is acceptable or that one can psychologically accept a situation.

Zhè这
ge个
lǐ理
wǒ我
mò抹
de得
kāi开
 ,
nín您
jiù就
fàng放
xīn心
ba吧
 。

This reasoning makes sense to me / I can accept this logic, so please don't worry.

Zhè这
ge个
fāng方
àn案
suī虽
rán然
bù不
wán完
měi美
 ,
dàn但
wǒ我
mò抹
de得
kāi开
 ,
kě可
yǐ以
zhí执
xíng行
 。

Although this plan isn't perfect, I find it acceptable / it works for me, so it can be implemented.

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Zhǐ只
yào要
xīn心
li里
mò抹
de得
kāi开
 ,
zhè这
kǒu口
qì气
yě也
jiù就
shùn顺
le了
 。

As long as you can accept it mentally / get over it psychologically, you'll feel better.